Unconditional Love

When people meet and fall in love, everything seems perfect. The one you love can’t do anything wrong. But time passes, and if relationships blossom into long term love, we begin to see flaws and bad habits – things that might drive us crazy or that are unattractive to us. That doesn’t mean the relationships don’t work out or that the couple can’t be happy. It’s just the reality of infatuation and newness wearing off, and the revelation of a person’s genuine self.

If people stay together long enough, “stuff” starts happening, and that’s when the couple finds out if they have unconditional love.

Sixkness, injury, accidents, unemployment, significant monetary gains or losses and the passage of time are just a few of the countless outside factors that can affect who we become, and ultimately if our love will choose to stick by us or not.

Think about how easy it is to love someone when they are mentally and physically healthy, when you’re living comfortably with no financial stress, and when everything and the kids are alright. Unconditional love comes into play when things fall apart.

(Some of the above adapted from searching for unconditional love, and finding Jackie Pilossoph’s blog, and copy pasting her text and altering it to serve this pieces purpose)

But things always fall apart so we can mend them with unconditional love.

And communication: using the proper signaling gateways, not forcing connection.

Using the protocols that our best taught us; through love.

Hippie stuff this sounds like, yes, but yodel in your own way a little and it is fun: